the bird was actually a thank you gift from a dear friend - i semi-forced her to move away from a horribly abusive man-friend in queens last friday and crash at my place while she got her life back in order. as many people close to me know, this proved incredibly stressful in the first days. abusive and manipulative relationships are not to be trifled with, and it is scary how much damage they can inflict on usually sane women. but the grand news of it all is that my friend has absolutely triumphed in the last days - despite a few setbacks.... - and i am so so SO proud of her for the changes she's made. she's becoming a different person - independent and self-motivated and a bit wiser. the future is so bright! and now i have this lovely bird here to remind me of such grand life lessons :)
and of course! yes, unicef is proving to be wonderful. i admit i have guilt complexes about the whole notion of the UN and IGOs and real poverty in the grand scheme of the world and all that, but i think working inside unicef for awhile will be the absolute best learning tool i could have. i'm enormously grateful for it.
so i do hope all is well with everyone tonight - best wishes from our little isle manhattan!

4 comments:
I'm glad you posted this. Here's to your friend continuing to heal herself despite the setbacks. It's inherently a quiet phenomenon (for how else could the abuser thrive?), but if you are close to the situation you do see the pain firsthand. I wish my sister would learn the lesson for herself for good. Three long years back and forth and she's back in the same broken relationship. :(
In other news, I know you'll learn tons as well as impart fresh knowledge to them!
Fittingly enough, that bird rather does remind me of a phoenix--your friend rising from the ashes of her old relationship/life/existence to enter a new one.
How very poetical of you Jooj.
very cool wall, jooj. and you are an incredible friend. one day she'll look back and say that you saved her life. love you so much!
the dove of peace (?) looks awesome. glad everything is working out. mom
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